Friday, February 18, 2011
A little curious
What makes a good relationship? After the official "Love yo boo" day went by I noticed these couples went right back to arguing and having issues. I guess I should rejoice for them for being happy for a day but, I'm ashamed. They basically tear down the concept by showing it only to rip it away. I always wondered what goes through head when crap like this happens. I wonder why people date the people they do. I figured since I don't receive much care I go for who show's it at the time. I also have a savior complex (Aka Captain Save' A Hoe syndrome) so I go for the girls who seem unhappy. A lot of people look for people who act like their parent. A boy dating a girl as loving as his mom, or a girl dating a guy strong like her dad. Dating is another thing we just don't think about sometimes. I think we look for an ideal mate but we never find one while we wade through being picky. This was just a random thought and I'm interested in what makes someone ideal dating material for you?
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This truly hit me right in the heart dude. I too have a Savior Complex (as we discussed in class together) and when I see a hurt, shy, troubled, etc. female, I just have this urge to help them. Anywho, you're not alone dude.
I believe the old saying " Love will find you." Its nice to help others but you also need to help yourself.
LMAO Captain Save A Hoe, thats nice of you, very bold of you. There's something about the other person that draws you to them, no matter how much they argue. Trust me I know. Its hard to let go, but then when I look at it, I'm the picky one! So our broken relationship is kinda my problem /:
It's good you realize it's a bit of your fault. Although the other person shares some of the fault at hand. Don't downplay yourself bud it's a relationship for a reason. It's a two way deal you both have your part.
lol i agree with you when say people look for others who act like parents. but i dont think you should be ashamed just because people argue. arguing is natural nd most of time the couples who argue the most be the ones who stay together the longest
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