I See You Been Hidin From Me

Whats the one thing people always try to hide????

Well I have an answer that I think most would agree...

Oh you do, well hit me with it...

Emotions.

That's right people I believe that the one thing people try to hide from everyone are emotions and their motives behind their actions. Think about it in terms of relationships and actions. When people try to engage in a talk with someone what do they do first after checking the person out......they survey the area for any witnesses. This isn't a fear out of cheating in most cases but its just the fact people would feel uncomfortable about hitting on someone while they're friends are there being nosy. I mean you go up to a girl and say hello how are you and try to speak to her and her friends are there judging and staring at you and it gets pretty awkward to the point where it may be better for you to turn around and walk away with your tail between your legs and your pride still intact. Now not everyone has these fears but most would probably agree you hit on someone in private. Like girls will be talking to someone and then when they want affection in front of people some guys may be scared because they're friends are there. I am not one of those people to be scared to show affection but I hate flirting in front of her friends.Another example would have to be when people put on a show to gain attention.

Now onto the purpose behind this post, it all comes down to the simple question.... Why? Why must people hide there emotions behind a mask whats the purpose. Some answers to this could be nervousness, depression, fear, anxiety and even excitement. Now everyone does this thing but what are some actual ways to conquer this big mental game of charades. Some people are basically scared of being judged by their peers and don't want to get embarrassed. Here are some solutions I developed to counter this ( I hope they help).

Some Personal Solutions:
1. Just do it: If you have something on your mind and your emotions are holding you back just act on it and it should probably work out.Although you still need to think about your actions don't forget that.

2. Its all in your mind: These emotions are all in your mind and there is really nothing you can do except for to be calm and take control of the situation. Just because it might be embarrassing doesn't mean you should give up on it.

3. Stop Living In Denial: If you want to overcome this stop living in denial and letting your emotions control you. Take charge of them and do what you feel. You shouldn't have to feel like you have to do something a certain way because others do it that way be original and do your own thing.

These Are The Top 3 That Helps Me. Personally For Now I Say Just Try This And New Methods Until You Find A Good Counter Measure